घेउन टाक

(over the last few days)

You don't make millions from being cynical.
Attitude is a manifestation of your ego to your environment.
Group Behaviour Versus Individual Behaviour
Consider the other side of things however absurd before forming an opinion
Abstracting helps in finding a solution. Removal of all personal / individual / situation specific aspects helps too.
There's a reason why things are the way they are. One needs to find a solution not where to fix the blame.